Sexual Discretion


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Always live in your truth! Have fun and enjoy your one life! Human sexuality is fluid. It’s natural and is meant to be that way! Do whatever you do sexually with good sense, personal care and safety, with the proper, well-understood consent of potential partners and, when necessary, with a measure of discretion.
And rememberYou are an adult. There’s never a need to tell anyone (or everyone) about who or what kind of things you’re into or might be willing to experiment and/or get into on the sexual level. That kind of information should only remain between you and your selected (and hopefully trusted) partner(s).

– RobFather X
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Chillaxin’ is a portmanteau word/slang term meaning “to chill and relax”. A few hours of fully nude, nearly nude or semi-nude relaxation is both peaceful and healthy for the body, mind and soul.
Get into it!

– RobFather X

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Have Faith in Thyself

Have Faith in Thyself (large))’Nuff said. The words in this photo encourages me; perhaps they will encourage someone else.

CHECK IT: You don’t need to have faith in any so-called omnipotent god, savior/messiah/Christ or demon; nor in any family, friend, lover or life partner; only in yourself. Always first believe in and have faith in yourself because in reality, in the long run, when all else and people fail (and people can and do fail you at some point), you are all you’ve got, baby! Always take care of you first so that perhaps – and only if you so choose, you’ll be in a better position to take care of and/or help someone else.

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National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness DAY 2015

National Black HIV-AIDS Awareness Day (Feb 7, 2015)Today (February 7) is National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day.
Read more about National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day at the links below.

PLEASE NOTE: While HIV/AIDS information and prevention knowledge is important for everyone, regardless of ethnicity, statistics have always shown that Black people – and other people of color, tend to rate among the highest in world society who are infected with HIV, who don’t normally get tested and who go untreated.

This annual campaign is designed and promoted to encourage sexually active men and women of color to learn more – as in the FACTS about the virus, to get tested for HIV regularly, to learn and to know one’s personal health status where HIV – or any STD/STI virus for that matter, is concerned, to practice safe sex and to insist that one’s sexual partner do the same.

Here are the links to check out:

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A Man’s Life (Part 1)

Clean upSometimes, we men can get so busy we forget or neglect to take care of those personal needs that help to keep us on point, sharp and aware. I’m talking about taking care of sexual tension. If a man allows himself to go days or weeks on end without releasing some of his sexual tension, then he – like women who display certain psychological behaviors every 28 days, can display some adverse psychological behavior, too! Men were not designed to retain sexual tension for long or extended periods of time. Something has to give at some point! If you are a healthy man, then having a regular release of sexual tension can only help you!

The first few days of the week, I’m normally doing some station business from home. However, Thursdays and Fridays are my busiest days for I spend a great deal of time with some sort of audio production or affidavit work – either at the radio station or from home. Fridays are worse for me because I’m finishing up production duties from the previous day and doing preps for my Saturday radio show, Saturday Afternoon at the Oldies w/The RobFather (SAO).  I normally work a seven to eight (and sometimes ten) hour on-air shift at two stations; one on Saturday and one on Sunday (stations are in the same building) – unless I’m called to stand in for someone earlier in the week.

I’m concerned about those last four days of the week.  It is usually during those days when I don’t have time to take care of some, uh…intimate personal needs other than my daily S-3 (aka shit, shower, shave). That’s why Sunday evenings and/or for sure Mondays, which are my days off, I am so damn horny (more than normal)!  If I don’t go out Saturday night and pull some sexual action then I’m “hurting” come Sunday evening! If I don’t “take care of business” – as in, get some sexual release by Sunday evening then come Monday, I’ll wake up with my cock hard as stone!  I’m much too old for wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) although I have heard that some men my age still have them.  I’ll have to look more into the validity of that information.

Anyway, now you know why Mandatory Masturbation Monday – or 3M is always on the agenda at my spot.  I should note that Monday is NOT the only day I choose to masturbate. I may masturbate on other days of the week – and as time allows, but I think having a rule to always masturbate at the first day of the work week, just might ease up any stress a person may have about the rest of the week.

No matter where you are and regardless whether you have a partner to give you sex, I invite you to join me each Monday morning, afternoon, or in the evening in performing this very healthy and natural release of sexual tension.  Your body – and mind (and maybe your partner, kids and co-workers) will thank you!

The blog series A Man’s Life continues here.

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