Meet…Nathan James!

This write-up/biography deserves to be on this blog because I want all my readers to know who this man is (if they don’t already know).
I consider Nathan James a good friend and brother; one of many “from another mother” whom I’ve met on Facebook and whom I have had the honor, privilege and pleasure of conversing with by phone. (I love talking with my good friends by phone for I simply HATE texting.)  It is my hope to actual meet, shake hands and give a tight bear hug (pun intended) to Nathan … AND to other good friends I’ve met on Facebook – Stephen Maglott-2including no less, to one of my other brothers to whom I give thanks and a “great job” compliment for writing this excellent bio… the incomparable Mr. Stephen Maglott!
Now, here is the bio on Mr. Nathan James, as written by our friend, Stephen.
Nathan JamesNathan James was born on this day, August 22, in 1964. He is an author, journalist, playwright, radio personality, and activist in LGBT causes.

Nathan James was born in New York City, and adopted by Lawrence, who was a police officer and later an owner of a hardware business, and his wife Marie, who was a banker. He has one younger sister, Cara. He graduated from Robert Louis Stevenson High School, and went on to attend John Jay College. Nathan considers himself a largely self-taught individual, building on his formal education. His interest in journalism began at an early age, and he edited his high school newspaper, and wrote extensively for the Lex Review while in college.

Following college, Nathan became interested in emergency medicine, and began working as an Emergency Medical Technician (EMT) for a local volunteer ambulance service. He was the first hearing-impaired individual in New York State to be certified to serve as an EMT. This led to a professional career of two decades at hospitals all over New York City, and Nathan eventually became a supervisor and instructor.

After finishing his work in Emergency Services, Nathan turned his focus towards his lifelong passion, writing. He discovered the joy of writing in the LGBT fiction genre, and his first full novel, The Devil’s Details, was published Books by Nathan Jamesin 2006, and although controversial, was recognized the following year with a PRIDE Award. Two more books, In His Court and the critically acclaimed Check Ride followed soon after, and Nathan’s work has been featured in numerous gay anthologies, including Lee Hayes’ popular Flesh To Flesh and Eric Summers’ Love In A Lock Up.

Through it all, Nathan’s journalistic work continued. He was a regular contributor to LGBT websites such as Kuttin’ Edge, SGL Café, The Future Forward, and The Rainbow Collective, among many others, helping to tell the stories of the gay and lesbian community. Nathan continues this labor of love today, as Executive Editor of GBM News, a multimedia resource for and about the LGBT Nathan w_DJ Baker (host, Da Doo Dirty Show), Swanny River in backcommunity, with a monthly newspaper and website, and writing for IKONS Magazine and DBQ. Nathan also contributes to Out In Jersey, Legends Of Fashion, and other periodicals. Close to Nathan’s heart is Da Doo-Dirty Show, where he was a correspondent for six years, with his friend DJ Baker, the show’s host.

“Writing is the way I speak to the world,” Nathan James says. “I write every single day. It is my deep, abiding passion.” His work extends to the stage and television, with off-Broadway productions of Cybersex and Juan And Emmett, which Nathan helped produce. Nathan’s musical, All For Love will soon be in workshop as well. He’s written skits for the Lovin’ Leyna variety TV show, and is currently engaged in two major reality series projects. Nathan is a frequent contributor, along with Delvon Johnson, and host John Campanario, on WWRL 1600 AM’s Out and About talk show, part of the station’s Equality Pride Radio lineup. He’s also performed spoken-word poetry at the popular Living Room Sessions at various venues across NYC, and recurrently at Speak Your Myne at Harlem’s iconic nightclub, Billie’s Black.

Nathan JamesNathan with Delvon Johnson at WWRL has served on the Boards of the Campaign To End AIDS, NYC Black Pride, and at the NYC Council Speaker’s LGBT Steering Committee, a campaign group. He’s organized and spoken at protest marches against gay-bashing, and against the Iraq War during the Bush administration, as part of the Rock The Rulers concert. He’s been involved in National Equality Day marches in Washington DC, NYC Pride StageFest in 2013, the Waiting All My Life Marriage Equality Concert, and has organized protest marches against gay bashing, and for marriage equality, throughout the New York metropolitan area.

Nathan does not currently have a partner in his life but is hopeful this will one day change in a positive and loving way. He enjoys his work as a journalist and community-builder, and is grateful for his many close friends, and the humor, insight and love they bring to his life.

Nathan James at anti-war rallyNathan James is an outspoken advocate on HIV/AIDS issues, both on the air and in print, Although he is HIV-negative, Nathan has seen too many of those he cares about suffer with this illness, and remains committed to the cause of ending this modern-day plague. Nathan is inspired by the great courage and strength displayed by those he sees living with HIV and AIDS every day.

Nathan struggled with his sexual orientation for most of his life. He discovered his attraction to other men in his early teens, but understood that it was something to be kept to himself. After several attempts to come out of the closet, Nathan elected to stay in the closet, for the sake of social acceptability and his professional life in Emergency Medical Services. Self-esteem issues complicated the picture for many years. Of course, Nathan’s true self broke down the closet door, and coincided with a major series of life changes, ultimately leading him down the creative path he still follows today.

Nathan JamesNathan James being humble at NYC'S Plaza Hotel hopes to continue creating works that uplift, educate, and encourage everyone, gay or straight. He is working towards the successful completion of his ongoing projects, the further growth of GBM News, and the culmination of his work into something lasting and beneficial for the LGBT and larger world.

Today we join Nathan James in celebration of his 49th birthday and in appreciation for his considerable contributions to our community.
Thank you for this EXCELLENT biography, Stephen!  It is with great pride and honor that I post this biography about our dear friend Nathan on this blog!

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The Girl On The Dirty Bike (an Ode)

I cannot remember ever writing an ode, a poem or a story about anyone who mesmerized me. I think this is my first. This happened yesterday, Wednesday, August 14, 2013.
Women riding motorcycle-1

The Girl On The Dirty Bike (an Ode)

A partly sunny day one August afternoon
In Saginaw.
I had just walked out of the fast-food joint when I saw…her.
She had just pulled up and parked her dirty motorcycle
Under the shade of the tree.
She was getting off the bike – I was about to get in my car.
But I stopped to stare at…
She walked in my direction…
The entrance to the fast-food joint behind me.
This fyne-looking young babe…no…
Not merely a babe, but…
A woman.
I guessed her age to be late 20’s, perhaps 30.
Noticing more clearly this…woman walking towards me,
I spoke to her…
 “Not often do I see a woman – a FYNE woman, ride a bike solo. I like that!”
I felt at ease speaking to this beautiful stranger –
as if I’d known her all my life.
She stopped to look and smile at me.
I clearly noticed her pleasant smile and her face,
Eyes hidden behind dark reflective lenses.
Her attire was black –
Except for tight blue jeans.
And the red paisley-print bandana around her small head.
She was small frame and stood about five-six or five-seven.
Physically, she was clearly my type –
The type of woman I had always known against my body.
Though I could not see her eyes, I knew she was… beautiful.
Her skin – smooth and flawless; her hair – long and dark brown.
She had a certain… toughness about her, yet clearly
She was…feminine.
I sensed her sexiness and sensuality
The aura strong but not overwhelming.
Yes, it is true…
It does take one to know one.
Then she spoke. Her voice made my nature twitch.
“Thank you” she said.
I asked, “Are you a member of a club?”
Through I could not see or read her eyes,
By her facial expression and body language,
I could tell she was impressed…
Impressed that I knew to call a group of bikers
a “club”, not a “gang”.
She smiled at me again and spoke…
And, as she continued to explain why,
I felt my nature not just twitch but begin to rise.
She looked so fyne and sounded so…
Yes, it was her voice. Feminine…slightly rough yet smooth;
Her voice – silky and quiet, but not a whisper.
Her voice – clearly a sound of determination and… confidence.
I could tell she loved and reveled in her feminine independence.
I was so turned on at that point.
We exchanged quick pleasantries as I told her of my love for bikes.
Then I said it …
not sounding cocky but very sure of my words…
“I think it’s kool to see women riding bikes. In fact, it’s a turn-on.”
She smiled again.
I was hard … and a bit wet, too.
Yes, her voice and her smile had me.
Respectful of her time, I let her go when I said,
“Safe riding.”
She said, “Thank you – take care.”
As I got in my car, I watched in my rear-view mirror
as she walked in the joint.
I didn’t get her name but I shall call her…
No regrets but I hope to see her around again…
The rough hours of the earlier part of my day
Pleasantly shadowed by my meeting of…
The girl on the dirty bike.

©RobFather-X! Productions

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A Man’s Life (Part 1)

Clean upSometimes, we men can get so busy we forget or neglect to take care of those personal needs that help to keep us on point, sharp and aware. I’m talking about taking care of sexual tension. If a man allows himself to go days or weeks on end without releasing some of his sexual tension, then he – like women who display certain psychological behaviors every 28 days, can display some adverse psychological behavior, too! Men were not designed to retain sexual tension for long or extended periods of time. Something has to give at some point! If you are a healthy man, then having a regular release of sexual tension can only help you!

The first few days of the week, I’m normally doing some station business from home. However, Thursdays and Fridays are my busiest days for I spend a great deal of time with some sort of audio production or affidavit work – either at the radio station or from home. Fridays are worse for me because I’m finishing up production duties from the previous day and doing preps for my Saturday radio show, Saturday Afternoon at the Oldies w/The RobFather (SAO).  I normally work a seven to eight (and sometimes ten) hour on-air shift at two stations; one on Saturday and one on Sunday (stations are in the same building) – unless I’m called to stand in for someone earlier in the week.

I’m concerned about those last four days of the week.  It is usually during those days when I don’t have time to take care of some, uh…intimate personal needs other than my daily S-3 (aka shit, shower, shave). That’s why Sunday evenings and/or for sure Mondays, which are my days off, I am so damn horny (more than normal)!  If I don’t go out Saturday night and pull some sexual action then I’m “hurting” come Sunday evening! If I don’t “take care of business” – as in, get some sexual release by Sunday evening then come Monday, I’ll wake up with my cock hard as stone!  I’m much too old for wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) although I have heard that some men my age still have them.  I’ll have to look more into the validity of that information.

Anyway, now you know why Mandatory Masturbation Monday – or 3M is always on the agenda at my spot.  I should note that Monday is NOT the only day I choose to masturbate. I may masturbate on other days of the week – and as time allows, but I think having a rule to always masturbate at the first day of the work week, just might ease up any stress a person may have about the rest of the week.

No matter where you are and regardless whether you have a partner to give you sex, I invite you to join me each Monday morning, afternoon, or in the evening in performing this very healthy and natural release of sexual tension.  Your body – and mind (and maybe your partner, kids and co-workers) will thank you!

The blog series A Man’s Life continues here.

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First Anniversary: K.I.R. Turns One!

Keepin' It...REAL 1st Year Annversary pic with insetAugust is the anniversary month of this blog, MY blog – Keepin’ It…REAL! (KIR). While there are blog articles written/dated/published a few months earlier in 2012, officially this blog did not launch until the first week of August 2012. HAPPY FIRST ANNIVERSARY, KIR!

I draft many articles for this blog monthly; much of it is just shit that comes to mind. Much of what I write could range from being a short comment (usually reserved for my [continuous] Hardline According to RobFather-X series to some longer, more detailed commentary about a topic in which I am passionate or which I know to be needlessly taboo or controversial in nature, or on topics or issues I feel need exposure and openly talked about on the REAL tip. Many of the topics I write about include my uncensored thinking on religion, the senseless things people in our society do, and on my favorite topics of sexuality and/or sexual hypothetical situations…just to name a few. I simply enjoy “telling it like it is” and sharing my thoughts from my own, free-thinking perspective. I will always be appreciative that I live in a country where I can speak my mind verbally and in print and not be jailed for it!

Corey Jarrell-Williams, bloggerOn this anniversary month, I need to [once again] thank fellow blogger and friend Corey Jarrell-Williams – the man who last year, kinda “pushed” my stubborn ass into blogging. At the time, I had been writing some very lengthy commentary on a variety of issues on the Facebook platform. While some people (like Corey) read my commentary and gave favorable feedback, many others didn’t read them and/or often complained about my postings being “too long” to be read. I always hate it whenever lazy, jackass people say that kind of shit to me… as though there were some Facebook rule governing how long or how short a user’s status or comment has to be in that forum. My writing style philosophy is simple and had always been:
I will use as few or as many words I deem necessary to make or illustrate my point or train of thought. While I reserve the right to be ambiguous in some or all of my writings, any reader of my work can safely assume that normally, I will intend to always be clear and frank in my self-expression.

Early last year, Corey and I had chatted on Facebook about my blogging concerns. In that chat conversation, he said the seven words that continue to resonate in my mind to this day: “RobFather, you should have been blogging yesterday!”  I won’t ever forget those words. Somehow, that statement from Corey meant something to me since they came from a man whom I had never met but had come to respect, and whose blog and Facebook postings I’ve always enjoyed reading. Thanks, Corey!

Man typingI’ve always enjoyed reading the blogs of other people but there was a time where I would find every excuse not to start and write a blog. I was simply afraid that there would be no one remotely interested in what I had to say. Making comments on Facebook was different for at least I knew that a few people on my Facebook friends list would like and appreciate what I’d written – no matter how “long” it was.  I had been thinking that by getting into blogging, I would be opening myself – or rather, my mind, to others on a world-wide scale. I simply wasn’t sure if I was ready for a world of rejection, particularly if I ever learned that less than a thousand or worse, a hundred people, visited my blog by year’s end. You see, for some reason, I had been thinking small when I should have been thinking big.

When KIR launched last August, I still was pessimistic about its success. Then on December 26, 2012, I got a good Christmas present when this blog reached 5000 hits and less than two months later, it reached 10,000 hits! As a new blogger, those were significant numbers for me – a new blogger, for I had never expected this blog to have any real popularity so early, especially without the use of paid promos, sponsors or ads.  My only sad regret in this, the first anniversary of my blog, is that other the occasional visit of my teenage son, no one in my family who uses the internet, and who is on Facebook, and who has been told of my blog, has ever visited KIR or commented on any of the articles in it. So much for family support!! But that’s kool; it’s just as well that my family keep away from KIR for I do not need any judgmental comments or attacks about the things I choose to write about or feature here! Moving on…

Here we are today – one year of blogging. Keepin’ It…Real! is my first and (to date) only blog. KIR is an entity which I still consider to be an experiment in progress, even with its many articles and nearly 25,000 hits. In this year-old experiment, KIR has gain new blog-writing and blog-reading friends, including people like fellow blogger, Roger Poladopoulos – of A Guy Without Boxers blog. But I don’t want to seem selective in naming people for I am grateful to everyone who reads and/or follows this blog! I’m also blessed by fate to see that KIR has gotten this far; it gives me strong motivation to… keep going!  I am appreciative to have the freedom and the mental and physical ability to write about whatever the fuck I want and post whatever the fuck I want – no matter how controversial, shocking or personally revealing the content may be. That’s how strongly I feel about having a blog…and it feels damn good!

Spelling, Grammar, PunctuationI don’t want anyone to misunderstand this blogging thing. As any blogger knows (or is quickly learning) blogging can often be hard work – at least it is for a guy like me. I call blogging “a labor of love”. As a perfectionist and otherwise busy man – one who is always concerned about self-representation to a host of unknown readers in the so-called blogosphere, I make it a point to take extra steps to ensure things such as spelling, grammar and other areas of the English syntax are done properly when I write an article. I proofread each article several times in an attempt to catch writing errors before I publish any article. I’ve learned that the longer the article, the greater the chances of there being one or more writing mistakes in that article. Without a second pair of eyes to proof my work, the smallest writing mistake can usually be dormant and undiscovered until long AFTER an article has been published!  I work hard to alleviate mistakes but still, it fuckstrates me when I find an error!

I’m very much aware that images or pictures and/or video & audio content often gives readers better points of reference  to certain topics of discussion in blog articles since those things are good for helping to illustrate or prove a point. I feel that in most articles, it is best to include some sort of media graphic. Many of the pictures you see on my articles were found on the web while some others are mine. I’d prefer not to use any image or media Graphic file formats-2graphic that is obviously or clearly copyright protected or which has a watermark. However, if I do use such media, the KIR’s copyright disclaimer already clearly covers the fact that most of the images shown are not mine. I feel if an image/picture is found in a search engine’s search result or on another website or blog, it is a free-for-all if I can simply right-click the image and copy it.  Sorry, but I simply do not consider my doing that to be stealing if I am not making any financial profit by using said image or graphic.  I feel the picture was meant to be mine…no matter how selfish that may sound.  Anyway, I’ll sometimes edit or modify certain images to suit my needs for the blog article to be published. I also try to ensure that I select and position an image on the page so that each is in tune or somehow associated with the point of the discussion.

blog keys on keyboardAt this point, let me express my deepest thanks and appreciation to you, my dear readers and fellow blog writers for being a regular visitor, reader and supporter of this blog, Keepin’ It…REAL! I am humbly appreciative of your patience in my infrequent postings here – for as noted and implied earlier, although this is a blog about me and my life, I shall always remain concerned with always giving readers a content of quality and not waste their time with hastily written and messy dialogue. I ask you to continue visiting and continue reading for there is always more to come! Keepin’ It…Real! has no central theme but I have taken steps to build pages on the blog to place in series or serialization, certain topics of concentration.

I also ask that you support the blogs of those who link to and/or support this blog. I’ve listed a few that I regularly follow in my blogroll on the right side of this page. If you like what you read here then chances are you may also enjoy the work of my fellow bloggers, followers and supporters! I most certainly do!  While you’re blog-surfing, please take a visit over to Corey’s award-winning blog, I’ll Keep You Posted. Click the photo on I'll keep you posted (blog banner)the right to visit Corey’s blog!  Corey is a historian, and genealogist.  Corey’s method and style of writing is never lecture-like or boring but interesting, captivating, often amusing and inspiring. I’ve been a follower of his blog for nearly four or five years. I promise that you will come to enjoy Corey’s blog and perhaps learn something new! (Now, if only I knew how to win one of those blogging awards everyone else seems to be winning!)

Thank you again everyone, for your part in helping to bring this experiment, this blog, Keepin’ It…REAL! to this point. To the spirit of this blog…

Keepin’ It…REAL!
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RobFather X, Male Escort???

“I’m bringing sexy back
Them other fuckers don’t know how to act
Come let me make up for the things you lack
‘Cause you’re burning up I gotta get it fast

– Justin Timberlake, R&B, pop recording artist; from the song Sexy Back on the 2006 album FutureSex / LoveSounds

QUESTION: What would you be willing to do for the right money and benefits?

As you think about this – or more likely develop fantasies based on this question, I have one of my own to share! First, this side-note:
The following is HUMOR and purely HYPOTHETICAL.
(Or is it???)
It should be no secret to readers of this blog and to some who know me personally, that I am one of many alpha males who is – most unashamedly, an extremely sexual person on the physical, psychological and spiritual levels. With that said, while I do have principles and values, I would never judge or dismiss the notion of being an exclusive (as in monogamous) male escort to a very wealthy person who happens to be a younger or older female or male. (You read that right; don’t judge me unless you know me.) I would pursue the occupation of being a male escort if I felt that the benefits of being such meant certain financial and material comforts for me.
(It’s just sex.)

Now, before I continue, this important disclaimer must be made:
DISCLAIMER: This article is strictly a hypothetical situation and written in humor. It is not meant – in any way whatsoever, to make any presumptions or judgments about male prostitution or male escort services. In fact, from my very limited knowledgeInside the Shadow-Economy-confessions-of-a-male-escort article and understanding of this field of occupation of sex-for-pay – and the risks involved, I realize this particular field of sexual gratification service is not all that glamorous or rewarding to some men although it has been the exact opposite for others. Whichever the case, I highly respect and do not and will not judge any man – regardless of his legal age, ethnicity or sexual orientation, who happens to be working in this field – in the so-called “shadow economy”, (click photo to read a story about one male escort) world-wide. I can only hope each man is sexually responsible – both to himself and his clientele, and will always look out for his personal safety.

Now, back to my hypothetical/what-if scenario!

So imagine me, RobFather-X, working as a male escort! Giving sexual favors for the money!The Male Escorts Handbook-Your Giuide to Getting Rich the Hard Way I know some of you are probably having a good chuckle right now (and others are cringing at the thought) and that’s kool. I’ve laughed at the idea a few times, too! But you have to admit; this is deep – even for me, right?  Well, I must say, some of you don’t know me very well! In another life or even in this life, if matters ever got worse, there are certain things I would be willing to do – if I were attracted to the person and she or he had the right money. (It’s just sex.)
Let’s talk about this far-reaching, unlikely-to-ever-happen situation!

S/N: If you are not clear about what sexual hypotheticals are, I invite you to stop reading at this point and get enlightened by clicking here to read my article, Don’t Fear the Sexual Hypothetical/What-if Scenario! After you’ve read that article, come back. This article will still be here!

As a male escort I would be having a second and (hopefully) exiting and pleasurable new career for a man my age. I could save most of my money and retire off of it! So long as my client is clean and healthy and poses no health risks to me (for I am already quite clean and healthy) I see no reason to turn down any offers for sexual services on a consistent basis for that one person. (It’s just sex.)

I have never paid for sex or sexual favors. In the Navy, when we would travel to foreign countries, any buddy I might be with at the time, usually paid for the prostitute. We’d both end up fucking or get blown by the same woman but no money ever came out of my pocket. I believe my Navy and/or Marine buddies always paid for the sex for both of us because usually I was the one who always paid for our drinks whenever we bar hopped! Funny how certain things work out! money in g-stringThe closest my money and anything remotely related to sex have come, goes back to the pre-internet days when I’d buy fuck books – i.e., pornographic magazines at the adult book store, slip some coins at peep shows in such places and when I’d visit gentlemen’s clubs (aka strip clubs). At such clubs, I’ve been known to slip dollars in a few g-strings and between the nude genitalia or buttocks of dancers whose performance or private lap dances I’ve enjoyed. I love watching on-line pornography but I’ve never – and would never – pay for any of it.  There is so much free pornography on the web that I believe that anyone who would pay for on-line porn would have to be an idiot!

I’ve never been anyone’s whore, bitch or sex slave. However, I would be willing to make certain exceptions when it comes to certain extremely wealthy people – so long as the money and benefits were right, as I’ve noted earlier. While the pay is negotiable – starting at no less than $100,000/year (I’m good, not greedy), the following are some of the benefits that must be included with the job:

  1. Paid – in cash, every two weeks.
    I do not want a paper trail back to those greedy tax fuckers of the city and state governments and especially not to the fuckin’ Internal Reclaim Service (IRS). I’m already paying my fair share of taxes drawn from my military pension. I think that’s enough citizen contribution from me, considering how there are hundreds, if not thousands of other people and certain entities – like the CHURCH in this country who are not paying ANY taxes! Nope; the money I’d make as an escort is “side money” and is solely mine! Fuck the IRS! 
  2. Use of the home estate or at the very least, be given a room of my own on the client’s property – one with a private bath.
    While I would already have my own private residence somewhere in town, I would expect that the client would want me living on his or her premises during the week, available to perform the sexual services for which he or she is paying me. No problem.
  3. Given a nice car…
    … (one of my choosing) which the wealthy client of course, would pay for. Car title and registration would be placed solely in my name. I get to keep the car once my services are no longer needed or if I decide I need to leave the employ. (See Sexual Qualification Point No. 16 below). Client can offer to pay for car maintenance but I shall cover the annual license fees and insurance. With me covering those two important things, I’d be sending the message that I understand the car to indeed be MINE and under MY control. This will hold up in court – next to any local or state laws that cover gifts given to people! Ha! Ha! Ha!
  4. Free medical care…
    … from my client’s doctor and/or staying in the best hospitals which my client also uses.
  5. Given one of those top-notch credit cardsGentleman escort attire
    (the kind only wealthy people use) Client will pay the bills.
  6. Given a generous monthly allowance for personal care expenses.
    Check it: I have to keep myself looking and feeling good, right? Pedicures and manicures – which I often do myself, would now be done professionally! Client might as well throw in a gym membership, personal trainer, a weekly masseur and mud bath!
  7. Given a clothing allowance.
    I may be a naturist or nudist but…DUH! I DO wear clothes and when I do, I love to wear NICE clothes – and nice kicks (shoes).
    S/N: I’m a regular guy. As such, I like to wear worn-out clothes too – the kind that look trashy – especially on those days when I just want to be lazy and not give a fuck about how I look or smell.  That means, just washing my face and brushing my teeth but taking no shower, using no deodorant and just let my manly funk (aka male pheromones) permeate any room I’m in. As an olfactophiliac, that’s such a turn-on for me! And yes, sometimes the rancid odor of my armpits and ball sac gets me sexually hyped! No shame in admitting that! It is what it is! I’ve always said that somebody needs to bottle and sell male pheromones; that person would make some serious bank!!) My client will come to appreciate the method to my madness – or at least enjoy the benefits thereof! Sometimes, it’s all about the funk, baby!
  8. Invited – but never required – to attend social events/parties that my client would attend.
    I assume that I’d be my client’s escort to such functions anyway but I need to make it clear that:
    a) I won’t be boxed or hidden away like some doll or sex toy
    b) If I’m ever bored or irritated at such functions, I’m simply leaving to go to someplace much more fun and exciting!
    I’d imagine some of those uppity-nosed events can be a bit boring and/or filled with snobbish people so it would be best if I’m able to leave before I’m driven to knock someone the fuck out!
  9. Two days a week off from “work”; a paid two-week (minimum) vacation.
    Client will have to remember that this is a job for me – not a relationship, goddamnit!

Few people I care about would be told or know about this new “career” of mine.  If I’m ever asked what it is that I do, I’d answer with a straight face and male prostitute humorvery clearly and proudly say, “I perform male escort services.” Then I’d look for jaws to drop, the raised eyebrow or the judgmental eye. People need to realize that I’m certainly old enough to make my own decisions and not give a damn or have any issues of guilt about what I choose to do – especially when it comes to whom I choose to fuck. I’m not religious nor do I give much of a damn about what other people think; therefore I certainly would have no feelings of conviction or concern about committing some sort of immoral sin or “abominable” act before God.  I said it before: it’s just sex, people. Repeat: IT’S JUST SEX! What’s the big deal, right? Besides, if one were to judge my life-long sexual proclivities based on some religious “standards”, that person would find that I am so far beyond having any concerns about being judged for being a masturbator, fornicator and maybe an adulterer too.

“Male escort”, “male companion”, “male prostitute”, “gigolo” “paid sex slave” or whatever label you want to stick to my new occupation, the fact is, I’m getting paid, baby! I would feel quite at ease with an occupation of this sort because unlike many younger people who would whore themselves at the proverbial “New York minute” or for the cheapest thrill, I would be a different, if not unique type of male escort; one who is already psychologically prepared and equipped with certain advantages that would permit me to be a much more loyal and monogamous employee of sex to my wealthy client. (It’s just sex.)

Now, in no particular order, I present some sexual qualification points:

  1. I am a Black male.RobFather-X  profile (1)
    As such, I am masculine and sexual in nearly all aspects.
  2. I am my own man and a man of principles – principles which I establish myself.
    I do what I please, when I please and as I please. I will go where I want, when I want. I am the final determining factor for what I choose to do – or not do, particularly when it involves my cock, ass, tongue and body as a whole.
  3. I am highly discreet and loyal.
  4. I most comfortable IN my sexuality, WITH my sexuality and ABOUT sexuality.
  5. I have the benefit of wisdom and knowledge…
    … about most things sexual and a healthy degree of good sense where that is concerned.
  6. I possess years of open-minded sexual experience.
    However, there are certain things I simply do not like to do and will not do and certain lines I simply will not cross for all the money in the world. (See Sexual Qualification Point No. 2.)
  7. I am sexually healthy and have been all my life.condoms-1
    I have never contracted an STD or STI. I get tested semi-annually for HIV and other STDs/STIs. I will not work for a client whose sexual health is in question.
  8. I regularly practice good masculine hygiene and grooming.
    I will expect potential clients to do the same. I simply do not – and will not do nastiness and filth!
  9. I have a talent for discerning or “reading” people.
  10. I have a certain degree of stubbornness…
    … which has always protected me from ever being manipulated, “psyched out”, taken advantage of, controlled or blackmailed or being forced to do something against my will. I also consider myself a master of CYA (“cover your ass”). (See Sexual Qualification Point Nos. 1, 2, 3 and 6, and 11)
  11. I possess certain street smarts.
    S/N: Growing up in the ‘hoods of Philadelphia, you learn a lot – and you learn it fast! I also have a formal education and twenty years of military education, training and experience.
  12. I have years of experience in meeting and surpassing certain challenges of life.
    In other words, I can hold my own in any stressful situation.
  13. I love to have fun; I possess a great sense of humor and wit and a pleasing personality.
  14. I appear younger than my physical age (although I am older than most men in this occupation)…
    – at least according to what I’ve been told by many other people.
  15. I consider myself reasonably physically fit, healthy and attractive for a man my age.
    This simply means that I’m not “too attractive” or so attractive to the point where others might want or “desire” me sexually and therefore cause some jealous friction or competitive drama to be created with my client over or about me. As a rule on that note, I work for one client at a time.
  16. I know when to leave…
    … and I WILL leave the employ of my client if ever I feel disrespected, grow tired or bored with servicing said client or if the client decides my services are no longer needed. Once I am done with a client, under no circumstances shall I return to work for or service that person.

prostitution-and-escort-servicesIf you are a potential client (I’m talking one with really deep pockets – as in wealthy… with nearly a personal net worth of a BILLION or more dollars to your name) and one who is lonely and/or in need of the sexual services of an older, mature, yet all-true Black man , then contact me.  So long as you are an equal opportunity employer then I am an equal opportunity lover! Until then, I’ll be searching for my first wealthy client! (Remember; it’s just sex.)

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